How EFT Tapping Helps Calm an Overactive Mind
Your body is tired, but your mind apparently didn’t get the memo.
You lie down to sleep and suddenly remember something you need to do tomorrow. That reminds you of something else. Then you start thinking about a conversation you had earlier, a decision you need to make, something you forgot to buy, and what you’re going to do three weeks from Tuesday.
An active mind can be incredibly useful. It helps us imagine, create, solve problems, make connections, and plan for the future. But when the thinking never seems to stop, that wonderful mind can become exhausting.
Sometimes you don’t need another thought. You need a little quiet. EFT Tapping can be a simple way to help create it.
Why Does the Mind Get So Busy?
There are many reasons your mind might become overactive.
You may have a lot happening in your life. You may be processing an unresolved situation, anticipating something important, feeling stressed, or mentally juggling too many responsibilities at once.
Sometimes the mind is simply trying to protect you. It scans for problems, searches for answers, rehearses conversations, remembers unfinished tasks, and tries to anticipate what might happen next. In its own way, it may believe that staying mentally busy will keep you prepared.
Unfortunately, the result can be a mind that rarely feels fully at rest. And trying to force yourself to stop thinking often creates another thought:
Why can’t I stop thinking? Now you’re thinking about thinking.
Tapping Gives Your Attention Somewhere Else to Go
EFT, or Emotional Freedom Techniques, combines gentle tapping on specific acupressure points with focused attention on what you’re experiencing.
This makes tapping particularly interesting when your mind feels overloaded because you’re not simply telling yourself to stop thinking. You’re doing something physical.
You feel your fingertips tapping your skin. You hear yourself saying the tapping phrases. You notice your breathing. You move through the tapping points.
Little by little, your attention begins shifting from the endless stream of thoughts into your physical experience in the present moment. You’re coming out of your head and back into your body.
You Can Acknowledge the Thoughts Instead of Fighting Them
One of the most useful aspects of EFT is that you don’t need to pretend the mental chatter isn’t happening. You can tap on exactly what your mind is doing:
My mind won’t switch off.
There are so many thoughts going through my head.
I keep thinking about everything I need to do.
Part of me is afraid I’ll forget something.
I feel like I always need to be thinking ahead.
Rather than trying to push the thoughts away, you acknowledge them.
That may sound counterintuitive, but resisting our internal experience can sometimes give it even more of our attention.
Tapping offers another possibility: I notice what my mind is doing, and I don’t have to fight with it. That alone can begin to create space.
Tapping Can Help You Discover What’s Fueling the Mental Activity
A busy mind is sometimes a symptom rather than the real issue.
As you tap, you might discover that underneath all that thinking is anxiety about an upcoming event. Or fear of making the wrong decision. Or pressure to get everything done. Or frustration about something unresolved.
Maybe you’re mentally rehearsing because you’re afraid of being caught unprepared. Maybe you’re repeatedly reviewing a conversation because something about it hurt you. Maybe your mind keeps reminding you about tomorrow because you don’t trust yourself to remember what needs to be done.
Once you identify what is fueling the mental activity, you have something more specific to work with.
Instead of tapping on my mind is so busy, you can tap on I’m afraid I’ll make the wrong choice or I’m worried about tomorrow. That’s often where the deeper work begins.
Try This Short EFT Tapping Practice
The next time your mind feels like it has twenty browser tabs open at once, try tapping through this simple round.
Begin on the Karate Chop point:
Karate Chop: Even though my mind is so busy right now, and there are so many thoughts competing for my attention, I acknowledge how mentally overloaded I feel.
Karate Chop: Even though part of me feels like I need to keep thinking about all of this, I’m open to giving my mind permission to rest for a moment.
Karate Chop: Even though my mind keeps jumping from one thing to another, I don’t need to force the thoughts away. I can simply allow myself to slow down.
Now move through the tapping points:
Eyebrow: So many thoughts.
Side of Eye: My mind keeps jumping from one thing to another.
Under Eye: Remembering this and thinking about that.
Under Nose: Trying to keep track of everything.
Chin: My mind has been working so hard.
Collarbone: Maybe I don’t need to think about everything right now.
Under Arm: I’m giving my mind permission to slow down.
Top of Head: I’m allowing a little more quiet inside me.
Take a comfortable breath and notice what happens.
You don’t need to make your mind completely blank. Simply notice whether the thoughts feel a little less urgent or whether there seems to be a little more space between them.
Create a Bridge From Thinking to Being
We spend so much of our lives thinking about life that sometimes we forget to simply experience it. Tapping can become a bridge between the two.
When your mind is racing in the morning, tap before beginning your day. When you’re mentally carrying work into your evening, tap before settling in at home. When your thoughts are keeping you awake, tap gently before bed.
You can even use a few tapping points without doing an entire script.
The intention isn’t to stop being a thinker. Your active mind may be one of your greatest gifts. The intention is to remember that you don’t have to follow every thought that passes through it.
You can notice a thought without solving it. You can remember something without acting on it immediately. You can have an unanswered question without demanding an answer right now.
And you can allow your mind to rest.
You Are More Than the Thoughts Passing Through Your Mind
Thoughts come and go all day long. Some are useful. Some are insightful. Some are creative. And some are simply mental noise. You don’t have to give every thought your full attention.
The next time your mind feels crowded, notice what’s happening without judging yourself for it.
Tap. Breathe. Feel your body. Notice the room around you. Come back to where you actually are.
Sometimes calming an overactive mind isn’t about finding the perfect thought to replace all the others. It’s about discovering that, for this moment, you don’t need another thought at all.